Meet the three women who used mystic rituals, incantations and a magic manual to find their dream men and conjured up real life romance

Who couldn’t usage a small spot of magic successful their life? A sprinkle of fairy particulate aliases a pact pinch nan stars to nonstop immoderate luck aliases a tall, acheronian alien their way?

While astir of america are contented dropping pennies down wells aliases scanning nan nighttime entity for a shooting star, immoderate return things further.

With spells and sorcery, immoderate women committedness they’ve conjured up nan man of their dreams aliases made a alien autumn successful emotion pinch them.

While cynics rotation their eyes, achromatic witch Sheila Kadeer, who had a decades-long profession successful nan constabulary unit and coming runs a spell circle for women, swears magic and spells work. 

Magic, she says, is simply a measurement of tapping into nan earth’s earthy powerfulness to thief you get your desires. A spell is simply a conscious process to nonstop this earthy powerfulness to make those wishes travel true.

‘One of nan astir celebrated types of spell formed is simply a emotion spell and location are galore different ways of performing them, specified arsenic nan speedy and easy “candle spell” which involves a burning ritual of a reddish aliases pinkish candle while focusing connected your personification of interest.

‘Then location are “incantation spells” which impact reciting words of power. There are much analyzable ones involving nan moon, ritual baths involving h2o and moreover “botanical spells” tin beryllium performed utilizing herbs associated pinch love.’

Sheila says location are emotion spells to tie your perfect partner to you and seduction spells to make you irresistible to them.

While location are nary charismatic figures astir practising witches, nan fame of spells and emotion magic has seen a maturation successful related hashtags, books income and courses online.

Samantha Brick said to 3 women who used magic to find love — and nan menfolk who were put nether their spell...

Spellbound soulmates

Alexandra Wenman, 43, an alchemist and author, is joined to Anthony Reed, 44, a recruiter. They unrecorded successful North London. She says:

I americium a hopeless romanticist and I ever had nan emotion that I was searching for ‘the one’. I knew successful my bosom he was retired there.

In early 2008, I decided I was fresh to meet my soulmate. At astir nan aforesaid time, I started to train arsenic a healer and complementary therapist. 

I ever had a relationship to nan angels, truthful I began to believe to nan angelic kingdom for their help. I besides attended a ‘law of attraction’ shop wherever I learned nan powerfulness of imagination boards and volition lists.

That time I wrote a missive to nan universe, asking to meet my perfect partner. I was specific, correct down to his looks, a emotion of recreation and consciousness of humour. 

I past did a ‘soulmate attraction spell’: I lit a reddish candle and visualised a timeline connected nan crushed beneath my feet.

I saw nan day of November 2008 successful beforehand of me. ‘I want to meet him earlier this date’, I said arsenic I walked on nan timeline. 

With eyes closed, I pictured myself being showered pinch roseate petals and my power section being infused pinch a reddish light. I moreover imagined I could smell roses.

Outside, I past burnt my missive to nan beingness and fto nan candle pain each nan measurement down safely overnight.

In nan months following, I treated myself really I wanted to beryllium treated by a partner. I took myself connected holidays and dates, bought flowers, gifts and complimented myself.

Towards nan mediate of October successful 2008, I moved into a caller flat, sharing pinch 2 housemates. When Anthony opened nan door, I had this emotion of ‘knowing’ him already.

Things sewage superior betwixt america quickly, because, successful a sense, we’d been successful emotion for months. We moved successful together successful early 2010 and since past I person been slow introducing him to treatment and spell work.

He was resistant astatine first but changed his mind erstwhile he had a backmost wounded successful 2011 and I healed it utilizing treatment power done my hands: I saw an image of a ace successful his coccyx sealing up successful aureate light. He hasn’t had immoderate symptom location since.

We joined successful Ibiza successful October 2015. I only told him afterwards I’d formed a spell to bring him my way. Luckily he seemed pleased.

Anthony says: I’ve opened myself up a batch much to this world since gathering Alexandra and I now realise that 1 positive 1 doesn’t needfully adjacent two. 

When Alexandra told maine aft we were joined really she’d manifested maine into her life, I wasn’t wholly shocked.

And yes, it did consciousness different erstwhile we met, for illustration location was thing otherworldly going connected — that we’d known each different forever. I’m gladsome she worked her magic to find me.

Magic manual delivered joy  

Energy healer Monika Hammond, 34, is joined to Gareth, 42, a head moving successful nan learning disabilities sector. 

They unrecorded successful Hartlepool pinch their 2 children Sofia, 4 and Emil, two. Monika says:

Gareth and I were moving for nan aforesaid company, but didn’t really cognize each other.

One time I was attending a first assistance course, and erstwhile I walked successful nan room, Gareth was nan first personification I saw. I had what I tin only picture arsenic a lightning bolt sprout done me, and I knew we were meant to beryllium together.

So why didn’t I spell and speak to him? 

Well, I had a fellow for a commencement and I didn’t person a hint what to say. I’d ne'er been capable to drawback someone’s oculus crossed a room, aliases travel retired pinch a witty one-liner. 

I needed help. How could I make him autumn successful emotion pinch maine from afar?

At nan clip I lived pinch nan kindest landlady who was besides alternatively spiritual. She had a room of magical manuals and ‘New Age’ guides and, earlier I knew it, I started asking for her advice.

A fewer months later, my narration collapsed up and, pinch my landlady’s help, I group retired to make Gareth mine. I was 24 astatine nan clip and until past hadn’t worked pinch magic aliases spells, though my mum sounds tarot cards and my aunt is psychic.

First I had to nonstop retired my words of volition to nan beingness saying very simply: ‘If Gareth is azygous I’ll person him.’ 

Then, my spell advised maine to unrecorded each time arsenic though Gareth and I were already successful love. I would aftermath up and ideate his look connected nan pillow beside me. 

On my measurement to activity I’d visualise my routines pinch Gareth later: nan euphony we’d perceive to that evening, nan repast we’d eat. This level of volition and attraction went connected each time for 2 weeks.

These imagined routines of experiencing emotion and a beautiful narration filled maine pinch what I tin only picture arsenic magical bliss.

As crazy arsenic it sounds, I said to my champion friend that, moreover though I was a alien to him, I felt for illustration Gareth and I were successful emotion — he conscionable didn’t cognize it yet. It was only a matter of clip earlier nan spell reached him.

Did it person immoderate effect connected Gareth? Well, I’d for illustration to deliberation so. 

For instance, 1 greeting I was successful a cafe and, while Gareth lived successful different town, I spotted him extracurricular nan shop. He had nary logic to beryllium successful nan area. I intuitively felt for illustration I’d drawn him there.

A fewer days later, I received a connection from Gareth connected Facebook asking maine out. He’d spotted maine astatine work, and asked astir to get my name. 

My magical incantation had worked! It goes without saying that we fell successful love, location and then. Within nan first period of being a mates I confessed to Gareth that a spot of magic had made him mine.

Months later we moved successful together and, acknowledgment to my spells, we are happily joined pinch a family.

Gareth says: I didn’t publication thing into Monika’s mentation astir utilizing magical power to propulsion maine towards her.

The truth is I was attracted to her erstwhile I first saw her. But yes things did, from nan start, consciousness very earthy betwixt america and arsenic though it was meant to be.

Magic is Monika’s world, and she tin ‘magic up’ situations, if she wants something, she does look to make it happen.

She’s utilized magic to manifest different things including a caller car, a taxation rebate and for america arsenic a couple, our location and becoming parents. 

With our location she ‘saw’ nan type of spot and wherever we wanted to unrecorded and, lo and behold, we recovered it wrong months. It was arsenic if she could conscionable make it happen!’

Writing ritual for love

Business advisor Lucia Craddock, 39, is joined to Mark, 53, a income director. They unrecorded successful Rayleigh, Essex. She says:

Six years agone I recovered myself aged 33, recently divorced, and looking for emotion successful a making love excavation that seemed to beryllium filled pinch unsuitable men. 

What was I to do? I wanted to beryllium a mum and settee down. I wanted to beryllium successful emotion and beryllium loved for who I was.

Luckily, I was surviving and moving successful Ibiza astatine nan clip — 1 of nan astir belief places connected earth, pinch powerful ley lines, aliases power corridors, moving beneath nan island.

That’s wherever I wrote retired a elemental volition of manifesting my dream man into my life.

I wanted personification who was spiritual, but ambitious. Kind, but driven. He’d get connected pinch my friends, my mum and moreover my feline had to o.k. of him. It was rather an order!

I took my clip astatine location adjacent nan formation penning down those words, aliases incantations, arsenic immoderate telephone them.

Writing down words, I person since discovered, is 1 of nan astir powerful forms of magic location is. 

I had an individual book, immoderate achromatic witches telephone them ‘Books of Shadows’ whereas excavation was conscionable a normal, elemental notebook.

Yet erstwhile you affirm your desires to paper, they go abstracted to you and return connected their ain energy. That’s erstwhile nan beingness takes over.

I wrote down my intentions successful July 2015 and, 3 weeks later, I met my now hubby Mark astatine an creation festival, and we ended up speaking for 5 hours.

Three months later he moved retired to Ibiza to unrecorded pinch me.

I tin only deliberation that it was because I had put truthful overmuch into these words that nan beingness was waiting for it, fresh connected standby, to magic up Mark.

Unsurprisingly, we fell successful emotion very quickly and I did show Mark 2 months into our narration that I had specifically drawn him into my life — pinch a spot of magical manifestation help. Mark’s guidance was wholly positive, he loved it.

Of people immoderate of my friends deliberation this attack to hunting down Mr Right is simply a spot loony, but my only consequence is this: it worked for me.

Mark says: I did find retired Lucia had put together her volition to pull her cleanable man reasonably soon aft we sewage together. I was taken aback, yet successful a bully way.

It felt awesome and it still does coming — I deliberation of it arsenic a immense compliment.

It really attests to nan truth that, moreover arsenic different arsenic nan thought is, we’re happily joined and still much successful emotion each day.

• A type of this article was primitively published successful nan Mail on  September 21, 2021.